I am sorry you have had such a rough time I am not really able to help much with your situation, but i was wondering if you could ring the midwifery team at Cabrini?? Maybe they might be able to talk to you about the Obs that deliver there and help with suggestions/names.

I rang the midwifery team at my local hospital recently and had a wonderfully enlightening discussion with them regarding Obs.

Good luck in your search.