I am so sorry for the loss of little Ellen hun Could you maybe try the acupuncture with the IVF cycle, get the best of both worlds? We did IVF for 5 years with no success and then along came our mircale naturally, we were given a 1% cahance of conceiving naturally and an over 90% chance through IVF according to our specialist (obviously not in 1 cycle). So maybe your little one just needs a little push with herbs or something. Big I hope your earthside bubba is not far away. Sorry, thats probably no help but I guess I just wanted to let you know that sometimes the 'unconventional' thing works.