thread: Trying to Conceive after Still Birth/ Late Loss/Recurrant Miscarriage ~ December 2008

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
    262

    Wow Helen, that's full on. I would be throwing a pity party for myself and whining David's ears off. The lengths you are going through for you bub! Take care.

    Diana, I'll hug you and you hug me :-) Not as good as a cuddle from a boys but a hug always helps. I cried all over one of my work mates today while explaining why I'm not finding much Christmas cheer this year. You all feel the same, I know.

    Owwwwwwwwwwwwwww, I'm having horrible cramps. I don't usually cramp. I don't remember getting cramps before my last pregnancy. Is this AF coming or still possible BFP?
    Last edited by Hammi; December 5th, 2008 at 01:49 PM.

  2. #2
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    Jul 2008
    Sweden
    148

    Hi guys,

    My point about "wasting their time" at the birthing ward is that they don't have to agree to see me. Which is exactly what they did -- when I called they told me to stay home and wait. I have to get ahold of my midwife again today to tell her that they didn't think it was as serious as she did. Basically, the norm with Swedish health care seems to be to try to get you to stay home and leave them alone whenever they can, and since the birthing ward doesn't have access to my journal where blinking red letters say "don't f*** with this girl again!" I figured they would be dumb and not tell me to come in. It doesn't do much for my already growing fear that my next unnecessary experience with incompetent nurses and doctors will be right there in that ward...

  3. #3
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    Sep 2008
    Where the sun shines
    322

    Hello,

    Really good to hear that the op went well Helen, must be difficult not being able to pick your son up, but so important to rest, great news!

    Tildy, how frustrating for you. can you just turn up to the hospital (try & pick a quiet time) and just say you want a scan on the recomendation of your midwife & due to medical history? In the mean time true to be at peace, I'm sure bub is fine, did the sugar hit help get him/her moving?

    Hey Cindee, haven't heard from you in a bit, how are you?

    Must go, more later.
    Last edited by Berry1; January 10th, 2009 at 03:26 AM.

  4. #4
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    Jul 2008
    Gold Coast, Australia
    131

    Hey Girls, just checking in quickly. Sounds like everyone is starting to get emotional about xmas. I know I've been finding it tough. On top of that 2 girls who I work closely with a due any day now. I had 1 baby shower yesterday and another next week. They are both gorgeous ladies and I am completely happy for them but also completely sad for myself. I think I am going to try and get out of next weeks, even though it is my boss. It is all just a bit much hearing people talk about that beautiful smell of newborns and the joy of turning round and seeing bub in the car seat on that first trip home from hospital and... welll... I don't need to say anymore to you girls.

    Otherwise I'm feeling good and just hope that together we can hug each other through a really tough time of year that we have to survive without our beautiful babies to love, hold and adore.

    Thank God for little Anna, I just keep picturing us all in Katie's shoes this time next year, still missing our bubs like crazy but welcoming new little ones to our lives. fingers crossed!

  5. #5
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    Oct 2007
    taree
    90

    hi

    hi everyone, everything is fine here i go for my ultrasound in a week. but in the mean time from monday, my internet will be shut off as we move on the 8th. so i wont be back on for about two weeks. hopefully sooner. internet providers are slow.
    baby is moving quite well, hope to find out what it is soon
    hope you all have a great Christmas, if i cant get online before then.
    anyway better go, gotta stop these girls from ripping each others hair out

    xxxcindeexxxx

    sending you all sticky vibes

  6. #6
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    Jun 2007
    Melbourne, Victoria
    500

    Tildy - just wanted to quickly post to see how you are doing? Have you felt bubs move recently? I hope you get hold of your midwife and get them to take better notice of you. I am thinking of you and I hope that all works out well and you get some reassurance soon.

    I am more than happy for Anna to become the poster child for this thread - she can be the symbol of hope for us all!

  7. #7
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    Dec 2007
    Sydney
    262

    Tildy, hope when I log on tomorrow you would've posted to say that Kebab kicked the hell out of you all night long. Come one Kebab, mummy needs some reassurance now. Beiron, tell your baby bub to be cooperative!

    As for me AF came bursting in totally uninvited today. Beeyotch. My heart dropped a little bit when I saw it (at the work Christmas party no less!) but I'm already looking forward and working out which days I'll likely be jumping David's bones again. Heee.