thread: Trying to Conceive after Still Birth/ Late Loss/Recurrant Miscarriage ~ December 2008

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  1. #1
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    Sep 2008
    Sydney
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    Hi Beata! Welcome, glad you found us. Looking forward to getting to know you. It is definitely a tough time of year for us but you will find amazing support here. So when is your operation scheduled for?

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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    Hi dd0207,

    Yey ! I think I was going around in circles before you pointed me in the right direction..thanks heaps !

    My operation is on 16/01, I'm on holidays now until 12/01 than back to work for 4 days and then 6 weeks off recovering from the operation. They told me the recovery is similar to a c section ( I said that's nice, but I haven't had one before !).

    I'm praying for a good result for you tomorrow.

    Love and hugs

    Beata xx

  3. #3
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    May 2008
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    Hi everyone and very warm welcome to Beata & Theresa, I hope you find our little corner of the world a safe place to be! Beata what sort of operation do you have to have?
    Jo if your out there, just sent you a message on facebook, I hope all is OK, how is your Grandma going?
    Diana fingers crossed for tomorrow, maybe the throwing up wasn't all that stress related???? You did very well to have all those children around you.
    Laney I hope you had a great Bday, speaking of bday's, DH and I are shockers just realised we both missed my nieces 2 days ago and his father's yesterday! Oops...

    Well on my front, I have some flutters, YAY!! On the down side I have also felt some BH's, they seem to come earlier for me each time, has anyone had them this early? I guess what makes me nervous is that that's what my early labour tends to be like, I can't wait to have my scan in 2 wks time, it can't come quick enough, every ache, twinge etc makes me wonder if my cervix is shortening....
    Good luck to all out there TTC, may Xmas bring us all hope and joy for the New Year.

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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    Hi hgirs,

    Thanks for your warm welcome. I thought I'd read your posts to get to know all the lovely girls in this thread, and you all sound so nice ! Can't wait to get to know you all better, you've got a terrific support network here.

    I've got a myectomy (sp?) operation where they'll remove a very big fibroid from my uterus wall where it's sleeping nicely ATM ( my fibroid died around the same time I lost Joshua ). It needs removing as my OB won't take another risk at IVF with me while I've got that fibroid there. I have one beautiful frosty bub waiting....

    Sending you big hugs and good luck with your next scan. I can imagine how nerve wrecking it all is for you ATM, I reckon I'll feel the same if I get pregnant again....just think good thoughts, your bub will feel them too.... Good luck and I'm sending you relaxing vibes !

    Love and hugs
    Beata.

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    May 2008
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    Thanks Beata, I'm trying to be calm about things, but it's just the waiting, if somehow we could just skip this part that would be great! I am so sorry to hear about little Joshua passing, did the fibriod have anything to do with it? Good job your OB is taking it out, it may set you back a little with recovery, but when you DO get pregnant again, you will have given your bub a nice cosy uterus to snuggle in!

  6. #6
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    Jul 2008
    Gold Coast, Australia
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    Welcome Theresa and Beata. So sad that you have to join us but glad that you have found us. We are all hoping that 2009 brings us our earth angels. I'm sending an extra sprinkling of baby dust to you both for the New Year!

    Laney: happy birthday I hope you got exactly what you wanted on your special day.

    Helen: yay for the flutters and bugger about the BH. If its any consolation I remember reading about them starting really early in pregnancy and it being completely normal. Lets hope the next 2 weeks fly by and you will soon have the reassurance you need. Is there any other option for you in terms of having a check up between now and then so you can put your mind at ease?

    DD: sounds like you've been having such a rough time of it. Lets hope the emotion and nausea are from a BFP and not what you think. I know that is usually my first sign of being pregnant (after the sore boobies) I just start crying at the drop of a hat. Not saying you didn't have good reason to be upset but I'm just trying to be optimistic about a good PGT result!!

    Tildy: sounds like you have a crazy and delightful few days ahead with your in-laws. How lovely that you will have everyone there to make a fuss over Kebab and your big belly. I remember with Ethan just being so excited that he was loved by so many people even before he was born. Its lovely to think of Kebab being a part of all that craziness this time next year!

    Megan: Im glad you are trying to focus on being grateful for what you have in your life rather than what you don't. Supposedly gratitude is the first step to abundance so its a good way to go. I am looking forward to us both having some exciting BFP news early in the New Year.

    Lan: sounds like DH better watch out!! I know mine can't wait. AF is due between xmas and New Years and then all bets are off! I think I will pee my pants with excitement when you get your BfP!!

    Hi to everyone else. I will hopefully have time for a proper xmas post tomorrow or Wednesday.

  7. #7
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    Sep 2008
    Sydney
    232

    Beata, I am sending positive thoughts from now for a successful op, speedy recovery and a BFP next cycle. As you probably read, we are starting a tsunami of BFPs in the new year so you better be on that wave with us!

    Helen WOO HOO for the flutters! How very exciting. Sorry not sure what BH means? I am sure the next few weeks will fly by with all the festivities then you can be reassured that everything is ok. I have every faith in your strong, long cervix!

    Oh thank you Helen and Paula for being so optimistic but I think my vomiting fit was from stress, and I am an emotional wreck at the best of times anyway! I had a bit of spotting tonight so I think the big fat ugly witch is on her way. I am CD27 so its a few days early. DH, God love him, was googling "spotting" and is convinced it is implantation spotting. I really hate letting him down, it upsets me so much. I was so hoping I would fall this month so bubs would be due on my mum's birthday. Nurse said I still have to go for the pg bt tomorrow to be sure, but I am not hopeful.

    I have decided to take the day off tomorrow (anticipating a sh*t day) so won't be able to check up on you all until tomorrow night when DH comes home with laptop.

    Big hugs and lots of love to everyone.

  8. #8
    Registered User

    May 2008
    215

    Oh good luck Diana, it ain't over till it's over! Many of us girls have had spotting in early pregnancy, so I am still crossing my fingers.