Oh Paula, you make me laugh! The very image of you sniggering like Mutley is priceless. Having you as a TTC-ing buddy is one of my only consolation for missing out the last cycle. I also remember that I'm supposed to be Diana's labour buddy so we're all just going to have to conceive this cycle.

I got goosebumps down my neck with your 'Angels' story. Ethan is so intuitive, it's no surpise his sister is also able to find ways to communicate with you despite worldly barriers. I must say that I haven't 'felt' Hamish for months now. According to Buddhist beliefs he would have moved on by now but I can't let go of him being my son so how could he let go of me being his mother? The only way I know that I still have some connection with him is that my mum's medical treatment is going really well - like amazing the doctors with the results. My mum firmly believes that it's because Hamish is helping her.

Rozzie, thanks for telling me that you were TTC-ing all through last 2007. We also started trying at the beginning of that year and here we are still. I know it takes time and things happen when they're meant to but goodness me, for others, babies seem to just happen! But look at you, officially in the third trimester now. Is next week's scan just a normal check up or specifically to check blood flow? Either way, I look forward to hearing about it and seeing the little person (I was going to say little guy but we're not 100% on that are we?) again.

Tildy, you gave me such a fright falling down the stairs like that. Hold on to the banister with both hands when coming down those stairs now and let the cats walk themselves! Congrats to you also on Kebab graduating to the third trimester. Are you getting a scan soon? Have we confirmed that Kebab is a boy?

Sue, congrats on buying all the baby stuff! When will you actually receive them? It is a scary commitment to make isn't it but such a wonderful thing to be able to do - setting up a room for your little bub. Did you get all girly stuff? Did you get letters to spell out Lily on her door? I didn't realise that you're only one month behind Rozzie and Tildy.

It's such a grey morning. Greyness is depressing. I'm solar powered, give me some sunshine!

Oh Paula, when you're on your Fertility Friend page, look down the menu along the left hand side of the screen. Click on Sharing then Homepage Setup. That page has the URL you can share with us at the top of it. Just paste that into your message and we'll be able to click on it. :-)