Paula, I don't think so, we all know how much our precious baby's are wanted, I can't see anything wrong with you giving it a go to get a little girl. In the end though it's out of our control! I forgot to say that my placenta is attached to the back and low lying at this stage (hoping it moves up), but bub is facing my back which is probably why I haven't felt a load of movement. The boys were both breech from the 18wk scan onwards, but this one is transverse with the head lower, so I am crossing my fingers this time I will have a head down baby! I know it is still very early but I am really hoping.
It's so quiet in here that I am getting really nervous for Laney, please please come on and tell us about your scan, big hugs.