thread: Trying to Conceive after Still Birth/Recurrent Miscarriage/Late Loss ~ February 2009

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  1. #1
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    Diana!!! Wooohoooo

    Diana, I know its only early days but I just wanted to say congratulations on a positive result so far. Will keep a lid on the full celebration until we hear back from you - but for now, congrats again.

    I believe our little angels, who left this world a month apart have had a hand in our recent fortune.

    I'm at work but had to write ;P

    Love Jasy xx

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    Diana - I just wanted to say congrats and I will be thinking of you on Monday and praying for a confirmed BFP!!!!!!!

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    Hi Girls,

    Nae Nae, you guys have really coped it lately haven't you! I heard last night about the tremors and was like, what in Victoria? Look after yourself. I hope the fires are under control at the moment?

    Hey Lan, I'm CD19, in the dreaded TWW at the moment and not doing very well with it, I hate waiting, I'm so impatient these days and I'm already feeling negative about it and feeling very sorry for myself that I am even going through this again, when I should be having a baby this month. I assume your in the TWW as well? I hope your fairing better than me and lets pray that this is our month Good-luck to you

    Teagz, is your party this weekend, or next?

    Jos, love your little ticker, the bee is very cute

    Beata, I feel I have missed some news of yours, it just came to me now, I hope I'm not making this up, but were you told your next transfer will be in May? Is that right?

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    NaeNae, I love your avvy! ><;;

    Berry, My party is this weekend, in 2 hours actually... I'm not really looking forward to it at the moment actually I'm not feeling very festive.

    Well I have just spent all day cleaning and helping my dad help me tile the splash back for our kitchen! Now him and DF are outside mucking around with the bore pump to try and get it to work but I don't think it's going to happen.
    DF gave me my birthday present today... a violin!!!! I have always wanted to learn how to play and well.. I feel rather spoilt It was quite a surprise!

    DD, Hun I have my fingers crossed for you on Monday

    I'll have a celebratory drink for everyone seeing as I don't have anything stopping me!! May as well

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    Hello beuatiful ladies,

    Sorry I haven't been on earlier, I had my computer stolen today (well, my DF's daughter Jayde actually hi jacked it most of the day to do her uni stuff as her computer is broken) so now here I am!

    Teagz I'm sorry AF reared her ugly head, had my hopes up for you sweets. I guess both of us have AF visiting at the same time this month (grrrrrrr).
    I hope you're enjoying your 21st birthday party (your actual birtday is 10 March right??).
    Have a drink on me hunni, and let your hair down!! When you're UTD you're not gonna have any!! he he

    Diana, I really hope you're resting up this weekend and secretly celebrating your great news! I'm that your BT results on Monday are great, and then we can really celebrate!!! I remember when I had my positive pg test, I had another one a week later and then a 3rd test a week after that. So 3 tests in 3 weeks. I think my progestrone levels were a little low too, so keep dreaming big and thinking positive sweetie!
    Always holding your hand hun xxxxxx

    Dee, I hope you're getting all those positive vibes I'm constantly sending your way, and keep my fingers crossed for you for your BT. Remember, not all women 'know' they're pg before they get their BT done, sometimes there is spotting, sometimes no signs at all, and sometimes cramping. Still, sometimes, the results are good!! So will keep and hoping for a BFP for you hun xx

    Lan, it looks like you'll be getting some hot action soon!! Keep up the good work and I'm for a BFP for you this time. Remember we want a sticky one this time, so keep visualising that little swimmer catching your nice little eggie! Keep picturing all those things in your head all the time, and it might just happen

    Megan, fingers crossed for you too honey for BFP. It really sucks being in the 2WW, I know...lets dream big.
    I thought I was going to have my transfer in May (F/S told me it will take 3 months for the uterus to heal) so I assumed I would have the transfer in May, but I'm only having my lining checked on 8/5 and then 2 weeks later I see the F/S to discuss the transfer so he indicated early June. i think he wants to waint until the uterus is well & truly healed before the transfer. I am so excited and impatient now, I wish it was June already!!!!!

    Nae, you're poor hunni. I was out with a few girlfriends last night in the city, and mum called around 9pm and said there was an earthquake!! I thought she was joking. I asked DF who was at home watching the footy, and he didn't feel anything (must have dosed off poor love). I hope you can get some good rest soon hun. I love your new avvie!! It's beautiful that you've put your little angels in it. Just gorgeous.
    What CD are you ATM hun?

    AFM, I am so tired today, AF hit me hard this month. BTW Diana, my bbs are getting sore again before AF!! Great news my hormones are really coming back to normal. Yey!!! (not for the sore bbs, for the hormones balancing ).

    Hello to all our lovely sexy mummas and babydust & sticky vibes and lots of bedroom action to all of us girlies TTC!!

    Enjoy the rest of your weekend everyone.

    Love & big hugs
    B xxxxxx

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    Teagz, I hope that you ended up getting into the grove and enjoyed your party. What a lovely gift that your DF gave you, that is very special and something you'll always remember.

    Beata, I can imagine how difficult it would be to wait until June, but I am glad that there is progress and you are moving forward. I love how positive you are, I need to try and think like that myself. We just found you that DH's cousin & his wife are pg and due in Sept, I had a little cry because we were meant to be the next ones in the family having a baby. That probably sounds really immature & stupid! I am really feeling sorry for myself at the moment and keep questioning why this happened to me. I think that it's going to be a tough month for me leading up to Jasmine's EDD on the 26th

    Teagz, let us know how the party went.

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    Megan, big hun. I can understand the way you feel ATM, with someone else celebrating some exciting news, while you were supposed to be welcoming Jasmine into this world in a couple of weeks time. I also think it's extra hard for you as you haven't had your EDD and technically you're still supposed to be pg, it just isn't fair hun. Why has this happened to us hun????? I believe our little ones weren't ready to be with us and they will came back when they are, some other time. I truly believe that there is the 'right' time for everything that happens in our life, and I guess the time wasn't right for us. But it will be one day hun, I can promise you that. And now, when you're shedding tears of sadness and anger and jealousy and unfairness of it all, one day they will be tears of joy and happiness and awakenning of a brand new dream unfolding before your eyes, when you're welcoming a beautiful baby into your life.
    Life teaches us many lessons, perhaps ours was one we needed to learn, in order to go onto greater things. I am here for you 100%, all the way leading up to Jasmine's EDD and beyond, and I hope that you can celebrate Jasmine's very short but beautiful life here on earth. I believe that we have been blessed to have had our babies with us, even if it was for the briefest of time.
    Big hugs hun, let's get through one thing at a time. One day everything will fall into place.
    Love and big hugs
    Beata xxxxxx

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    Teagz - planning a wedding will be an awesome distraction for you I loved planning ours and who knows what will happen between now and then Thinds always happen when you take your eye off the prize.

    Berry - for you and I hope the TWW isn't too painful for you how many days to go?

    dd - for you too hun

    Dee - I am with the other gotta hold on to hope darl no matter what. Its amazing what the power of positive thinking can do, hang in there. beata is right no matter what we'll catch ya if you fall.

    Beata - your such a gorgeous woman. How you doing?

    ALM - Congrats hun thats such an awesome milestone for you, I hope you got spoilt rotten and got loads of great things for bubba when it comes.

    hgirs - hehe it was me - I am convinced gippsland gets everything. How are you holding up??

    Jas - whats goss with you? hope your doing well.

    AFM - I am kinda itchen to do a test but in some ways wanna wait until April in case it goes pear shaped again if I am UTD at least if I don't know and I bleed I won't think anything of it. Sounds dumb because it won't make any difference when I find out if I am coz it will stick if its meant too.
    Signs are still looking good, I almost had to pull over tonight driving home I had a woooo spell (thats when your head goes light and you say woooo) followed by major nausia I thought I was going to be sick. Got home and woofed down dinner far out I eat like a pig. NIpples are super sensitive today even just now sitting with my jammies the top rubbing them makes them owwie.

    Gotta hold out. Aside from that we hung a picture in our MB on Sunday, poor DH hates looking at blank walls and I promised when I saw something I liked I would put something up, well I had the piccie on layby for 8 weeks and its finally hanging in our room. Piccies in the gallery.

    Catch U all tomozz

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    Hi sweeties,

    This is my third post, I have lost the previous two and I am NOT HAPPY JAN!!!! The first one was huuuuuuuge (maybe good that I lost it LOL) the second one I amost finished and then lost it. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr x million times plus infinity!!!!!!!

    Here's a very quick one...

    Diana, my HCG levels were 352 at 5 weeks and one day. I found a letter today relating to a hospital visit a week and one day after I got my pos. BT (which apparently was 4 weeks into my pg). My family doc was worried that my belly at 5 weeks pg was the size of a 5 month pg, but that was because of the IVF drugs and my fibroid. Sooooooo, your HCG levels are fine hun, praying they'll keep going up and up and your little darling embie is a tough and sticky tittle cookie!!!!

    Dee, don't give up hope hun, I still pray everything is OK and you'll get the good news on wednesday.

    Nae, sweetie I am praying so hard that you're UTD. Signs are looking so positive, praying this month is yours hun Good luck for thursday precious!
    I am feeling much better today, I actually hoped I didn't fall naturally this month by some miracle (can you believe I'm saying it? LOL). We're actually careful not to DTD around O just in case, as my uterus is no where near ready for a pg ATM. But please wish me 9 months of feeling off in June hun!!!!

    Jo, thanx so much for your lovely comment, you're a sweetie. Congrats on 33 weeks, that is just awesome hun. Only a few more weeks to go!! How exciting!!!! Have you got some names picked out for your little princess?

    Teagz, so glad you had a great time at your partay. How sweet is your dad??!! Don't worry hun, can't see him repeating the kind gesture for your next birthday lol.
    Good luck planning your wedding hun, I should be doing the same!! In actual fact, weddings scare me for some unknown reason, so I just wish I'd close my eyes and wake up married he he he. BTW, I'm crashing your wedding ha ha.

    Magan, very hard for a BFP for you sweetie, the time has to be soon

    Helen, I hope your pubic bone pain is under control. You're almost 30 weeks!! WOO HOO!!! That's awesome, big hugs hun

    Jas, hope your pg is coming along nicely hun, and enjoy every second of it

    OMG, I actually finished a post without losing it!!!!!!!

    Hello to everyone else and I hope all of you wonderful girls have a great week

    Love always
    B xxxxxx

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    Diana,

    I found this on the net:

    IVF pregnancies generally have lower hCG levels than other pregnancies. The theory is that non-IVF pregnancies implant sooner, thereby having more time to generate hCG than a transferred embryo would.

    hope this helped....

    B xxxx

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    Hi Ladies,
    I just got back from the high risk OB. Our little man is on the big side 71st percentile. He is about 2.2 pounds now. It is still so difficult to understand/believe that he is growing so well.
    I had my GD test yesterday because I have been feeling a little sick. My doctor said that diabetes wouldn't make me sick but who knows. I should know more today or tomorrow.

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    Happy 21st Birthday for yesterday [COLOR="Red"]Teagz [/COLOR]hope you had a wonderful day.

    Laney - great to hear from you and that your little man is growing well and staying put! Take care hun wishing you another 14 weeks of nothing happening expect for an ever growing baby boy.


    Berry - hang in there - if you want, we can test together I can wait ... maybe.... but it can help to have someone doing the TWW with you?? I really don't want to test until after the 3rd April coz thats 2 missed periods counting 28 days per cycle from MC. Just don'tr know if I can hold out that long. DH is convinced I am he has picked it everytime so far.

    Beata - will be hoping and June will be your month.

    DD - good on you hun,we will all be hoping for you.

    AFM - we're still feeling the earth move out here 3.5 quake 2km deep yesterday. I am still crapping myself but a colleague made a good point that our house is pretty safe considering its stilted because it takes so many stilts to hold up a house AND considering the house is 111years young this year it has been through bigger ones. Its a little reassuring but quakes still make me jumpy.
    I can't win ATM I have been feeling really off, if I eat I feel sick, if I don't eat I feel sick. I think I am UTD but don't want to test or get excited just yet I am so worried it won't stick.
    Tomorrow I am heading into the BellyBelly Centre in Canterbury, I am sooo excited, I can't wait to see the place, I just want to check everything out. I am thinking I might go in and see the Naturpath or Tarot reader at a later date depending on how everything goes.

    Love to all
    Nae x

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    Laney - You are a supermum! There will be nothing but good news for this little bubba!

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    teagz happy birthday for yesterday hope you had a fantastic day.

    well my bloods have travelled half the country i think and i still don't have a result maybe tommorrow they tell me. because i got them done at my local gp they stuffed up where they were meant to be sent and then to make things worse they never put on them that the results were meant to go to qfg. have done another poas and still negative so i'm getting ready to start again am feeling a lot better about the fact. on a better note today got a letter from the fs stating that chloe didn't have any chromosone imbalance so that has made me feel so much better and i think has made dh feel better as well.
    hope all you lovely ladies are all doing well i will let you know as soon as i have a defiant answer.it could be a while at this rate.
    anyhow tonight am cooking a special dinner for dh as feel that he deserves it for being such an amazing and understanding man.