Trying to Conceive after Still Birth/Recurrent Miscarriage/Late Loss ~ February 2009

NaeNae, I KNEW IT!!! :P Congrats!! :hug: I'm so excited for you!!! Wishing a boring pregnancy on you xxx

Jos, That's great about your test results. Bring on those milestones!! We're on private health... not that I've actually gotten a chance to use it yet - and with jayvan we missed out on it my two months because there was a 12 month waiting period and I got UTD probably a month after applying. Oops... But from my point of view the only difference it makes is hospital stay? Which in my area is niether here nor their because the private and public hospital here share the exact same building, all that devides you is what's written on your sheet of paper!

Beata, My mum has been through a stillbirth and a late loss between my brother and I, Everytime AF has arived for me the last couple of times we've sat down and had a big cry together about our angels. So, I think she needs the wedding distraction just as much as I do at the moment! Hope that migrane has gone away, yerk!

Annyway, Congrats again NaeNae and Jos! I better get some work done

xxxx

Hi all,

I've been quiet but I definitely do stalk you all... just had to say huge congrats to Nae, Jas and Diana. It's ealy days but all babies start out this way don't they!!! BFPs on this thread seem to come in waves so you oher ladies will follow in a month or two :)

As for me, I have my pre-admission appointment at the hospital this afternoon then will go in for my Casear week after next. I cannot wait, just want the time to fly by!!!

Love Rozzie

Hi girls,

I also have been reading, but not posting.

I also wanted to congratulate Nae, Jas and Diana. What absolutely fantastic news. I am so happy for you and wish you all a H & H pregnancy.

And for the rest of you girls, I will have my fingers crossed for more BFP soon.

All going well with me and bubs. Nearly 32 weeks and am doing antenatal classes on Saturday (I cant believe I have gotten this far!!!).

Look forward to hearing more fantastic news soon.

xxx Sue xxx

HI girls

I am in an all day conference but just had to excuse myself to take my FS's call and update you all before I go back in - very long loo break this is!

Anyway my HCG today is over 2000 today (they like it to be over 3000 at this stage) and my progesterone has dropped to 28 (from 39). FS said it's still too early to celebrate and the next few weeks will be critical but he is happy the levels are going up. It's not dire, but not the excellent news I wanted.

I am going for a scan next Friday so I guess that will determine how everything is going and if little one has a healthy beating heart.

This waiting is sure testing me - and really really hurting! Who said it's a 2WW - more like a 6WW for me!

My love to you all x

Got another pregnancy announcement today.
Green green green!

Hello everybody,

Well I wasn't going to pop in until later tonight as we're just about to head off to a footy game tonight, but boy, I'm so glad I did!!

Nae, WOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOO hun :loveshower:! That is such great news, I am so happy for you sweetie! I had an inkling you were UTD, a gut feeling you can say...I so hope this little one is a sticky one, and you have a healthy, happy and pretty uneventhful 9 month pregnancy!!!
Congratulations sweetie, you deserve this baby sooooo much :dance: and you will bring it home this time!!!!!!

Diana, thanks for updating us, I was going out of my mind to find out how it went today..! I'm very glad the levels are going up hun, I know the FS would like them to be higher, but the more I read about the levels the more I find that some women start off with lower levels and still go on to have healthy bubs. Good luck honey :crossfingers:, always thinking of you and wishing for your little one to stick like glue! Big hug and kiss xxx

Teagz, don't worry sweetie, your turn will come, I promise! Be happy for your friend/colleage, they will too be happy for you when it's your turn xx
I'm so sorry for you mum, she must have gone to hell and back the poor love. It's so good that she really understands where you're coming from, so good to have that wonderful understanding and support :hug:

Jas, great news hun, very happy all is looking well for you and bub. Take it easy, and enjoy bonding with your little one. This is something I really look forward to with my next pg.

Rozzie, Sue, Jo, Tildy & Helen, big hugs to all of you girls :grouphug:. Only a few weeks to go for some, and Rozzie you're up next I think!! Good luck to you all, and I can't wait to hear some announcements soon xx

Megan, the eyes are on you sweets!! Hope you bring us another BFP soon!! :pray:

Dee, sending you big, big hugs and hoping and praying so hard the next cycle is the one :pray::crossfingers:

Hello to everyone else out there!

Love and hugs
B xxxxxxxxxx

Nae, Congratulations, :happyforyou: that is wonderful news I pray that this one is ultra sticky and everything goes well.

Jasmine, now I get the whole name thing, how funny. Glad to hear your BT results were all good, great news. I hope the rest of your pg goes this smoothly :D I have private health, have had it for a while now. I am seriously considering going public next pg due to the high costs. I'm like Teagz, I get hardly any benefits from any service i.e. OB, scans etc except for hospital. I had so many tests done when pg with Jasmine, we ended up paying over $6000 and perhaps got back about $1000. I ended up having to have her in a public hospital anyway and the nurses were so great, it made me start to re-think how I want to do the whole thing next time.

Diana, I can imagine how painful the whole waiting game must be for you. Keep holding onto hope, the fact that your levels are rising sounds very positive, but I understand you wanting to stay 'level headed about it (ifkwim). We'll keep praying that little bub keeps sticking and growing strong :hug:

Sue & Rozzie, nice to hear from you both. Rozzie, you must be getting so excited now, all the best for you and your DH, make sure you post again before the big day, I am sure everyone will want to wish you the best.


I would like to think that AF will stay away, but I really don't think so this time :( There is always next month.

NaeNae - A huge Congratulations!!!!! I am thrilled for you :leap:

*hijack*
Just popping in to say a big congrats Nae, even though you don't want to get too excited just yet, which is certainly fair enough. I really hope this time you get what you guys truly deserve - a beautiful child. Stay positive and healthy and I will be praying extremely hard for you both. You guys deserve this. Much love xo

All the very best to everyone else.

:redface: thanks all for your support,
Loops - nice to see you venturing out of your section I bet your snoring today I know I am ;);)

Teagz :hug: you bub will come hun, just gotta hang in there and dtd as much as possible. At least you still can we're not dtd anymore - poor hubby - so thats one thing you get that we don't. Just start counting you days and hopefully a :bfp: will be yours next cycle.

DD - stay positive hun we'll keep everything crossed for you.

sryan - congrats on the 32 week mark an awesome milestone for you and a bonus now your counting down single figure weeks.

ZM - thanks sweets I am excited and loving all the crapness that comes with early pregnancy.

All you girls are so cool - thanks again for all your support. It is still early days yet but having much strong symptoms than the last time. I am tempted to make a drs appoinment but will hold off until 30th. We felt the earth move 3 times in the last 12 hours its funny how you start getting use to them. I got a bit scared when the 5am one hit so DH rolled over and cuddled me so cute.

More later

Nae x

Hello Nae,I here there`s a congratulations in order for you & DH,That`s such wonderful news hun,please take it easy ay! :bluedust::stickyvibesgirl: :happyforyou:
Keep in touch hun,hugs.....:dance:

Hi Beata- How are you going hun? How are you feeling? :hug:

Ithought I would just pop in to say hi.;)
Love Susan.xx

Mummy of Many, I just wanted to say that I read the memorial to your beautiful son and could not get through it with many a tear. What a brave little boy, I can't even imagine what your family have been through, but justed to say hugs to you :hug:

Thanks Susan,

Trying not to be overly excited but to also celebrate that fact that we're pregnant again. I am :pray: so hard that this little munchkin will be the sticky 9 month one that I have dreamed of. Hope you're doing well hun

Lots of love to you I will shoot you an email soon.

Nae x x x x

Gee its all gone so quiet in here its like a ghost town ...


Hellloo ellloo lloo ooo Echo echo echo cho o

How is everyone?

Teagz, Beata, berry, dd, anyone ???

I did put a post in here earlier this morning but it obviously didn't go through! Stoopid BB
Well, it's going to be a selfish post now, sorry girls.
Went to my naturopath this morning because thrush is back, and my cold... and my sore throat :(
Verdict is in and: No baby making for 3 months (i should have just listened to her the first time I went 3 months ago! but I didn't like her answers then!) so I can take all this herbal stuff to get my immune system back on track... or at least back. I feel so aweful for DF, having to put up with all of this on top of everything else! I told him if he wanted he could leave and find himself a nice girl who isn't falling apart, but I haven't heard back from him... which is a bit of a worry.
So, Beata, looks like I'll be joining you in June for my official, healthy, baby making journey.
NaeNae:hug: I hope you're enjoying some terrible trerrible pregnancy symptoms ;)

:hug: Teagz - you poor thing gosh what a terrible time you're having with this thrush. Hopefully the Naturopath stuff works what a bugger you have to wait though. Sounds like your response to your DF is similar to ones I have said to DH when I throw a tantie :lol:
Yeah I am enjoying the symptoms alright , thankful for everyday that there is no blood and on the count down to make my Dr appointment 14 days then I make an appointment. Once I have done all the tests etc THEN I will do a formal PA. I am :pray: so hard this will be my bring home baby.

I know, it's horrible! He isn't going anywhere though... he sent me a message back saying that he'll stay if I *insert sexual act here* which means he got my message, rolled his eyes at how dramatic I was being, and then decided it would be a great oportunity to gently pull the p*ss out of me :rolleyes:
I can't believe how patient your being, I would have been up at the Dr's the minute I saw a BFP, I think I need to take a leaf out of your book!

:lol: sounds just like DH don't you love them though able to just shug off our comments like that :lol:

Not patient really just biding my time is all. I would love to get there tomorrow but I figured if I miss 2 AF then things are chugging along better than last time - I know logically it doesn't make any difference to what the outcome will be but I am hoping the long I leave it the more bub grows and the more chance of seeing something wonderful at the U/S - yeah I think I need a shrink :lol: makes perfect logical sense in my mind though.

I cannot actually get in to see my preferred Dr until 26th April so I am seeing a new Dr (a woman Dr) on the 1st April. 15 days to go.