Paula, I feel for you today. There seems to be a never ending stream of people to tell after the loss of a baby, no matter how much time passes. That's why I've not told anyone this time, I'd rather give them unexpected good news at a time of my choosing. I hope you can get some better answers from your other doctor too.
Helen, glad to hear things have settled down.
I started wearing maternity wear on Wednesday. I didn't actually run into many people (even avoided drinking water to limit toilet trips, so silly!), so there's still plenty of people to deal with still yet to come. Only one person asked me about it, and I actually told her about Edward without breaking down and she didn't act awkward just said she's sure everything will work out this time so that was nice. I think everyone else is just too afraid to ask/say anything, which is kind of funny!
Have had lots of nice big kicks the last few days, DH felt from the outside last night which was lovely. Can't wait to do it again tonight. It was a little bit deja vu, last time we used to sit in front of the tv with his hand on my belly feeling for kicks, it's the same this time. It's probably the strongest sense of deja vu I've had so far.
Anyway, looking forward to some more good news on this thread, I think Sue's scan on Monday is the next source! Sue, when you get your results depend on how they do it. Last time I got mine at the next appointment, this time I got it straight after. If the neck measurement is around 2mms or less then that's the main indicator I think, so just watch the measurement. Just don't painc if it's a bit higher, it's a risk indicator, not a diagnosis!!!!
Hi Ladies, I have been having a difficult time getting on bellybelly for the past couple of days. I don't know what the problem was. I have a bit of reading to catch up on. I was worried that I might have missed some news from Katie! Guess not, I will be stalking if my computer continues to play nice.
I have had a stressful day. Last night I had a bit of pink spotting after sex. It was a tiny bit and it didn't last long at all. I know what the problem is at least. I had a pap test on Monday ( I have no idea why they have to do that so early in pregnancy). I always spot and it freaks me out. I think my DH is worried that I am going to avoid him for 7 months now. He might be right to worry.
Laney - I hate the idea of spotting. I was terrified of it this time around. I had a small spot at 6 weeks but thankfully nothing since. I hope you are as lucky and have no more spotting to add to your anxiety. You are doing so well, keep up the positive thoughts.
Rozzie - hugs for moving into the maternity wear. I know it must be so hard having to wear it and also fear the questions that will arise. It sounds like you are doing a good job so far, and it is good that you can be honest and talk about Edward when people ask you. I think having to face people who may not know etc, is one of the hardest parts of the grieving. I always feel so vulnerable and that inevitably leads to feeling teary. Good luck over the coming weeks and I hope people are sensitive towards you. Also it is lovely that your DH can feel the kicks already. It took my DH until 25 weeks until he felt anything. I know it will bring back memories of Edward, but try to hold on to the fact that they are lovely memories even if bittersweet.
Paula - hugs with the text you received from your friend, but glad that she was sensitive when you called her. You must have felt exhausted by the end of the day. I hope your specialist can take over the management of your progesterone as well as hormones, that way you will know you have all bases covered. Don't worry about having an 'all about me' post - we all need to do those at different times.
Helen - so glad your spotting has stopped - fingers crossed it stays that way! Thanks for the labour vibes - keep sending them my way!
Sue - good luck for your scan on Monday. Can't help with the blood test results as I don't have them done - just the NT scan. I hope you have a lovely scan and see your little baby moving around for you and putting on a good show. Make sure you update us asap!
Hi to Tildy, Cindee and Jo and anyone else I have missed...I hope you are all well.
As for me, I am still sitting here counting the days. Saw my ob yesterday, he was running late as he had an emergency C/S and then a woman in labour. All is good, he said that the baby is a 'nice size' and reassured me that he doesn't mean big! I had to double check on that one. Blood pressure and baby hb is good, and still fully engaged, so the due date really is anyones' guess! My mum is doing well and had her first chemo treatment on Monday. She has been feeling pretty good and only had one instance of slight nausea, so fingers crossed that it continues through the whole treatment. She is currently staying with my sister, so is being looked after. She is getting excited about the baby and reminded me to call when I go into labour.
Well if have hit the 13 week mark.... just so waiting for the scan tomorrow and I think (after my history and if all is OK), I will relax a little after there.....
Katie - Your ticker says on 6 days to go..... yahoo.... how are you feeling and going??? I am so awaiting to hear your announcement....
Laney - spotting is so scary, I have had it twice so far during my pregnancy and I have freaked out. I hope you are feeling better.
Rozzie - Nice to feel those kicks, I can not wait until I get that feeling. I am so proud of you for wearing maternity and getting through the rest of the week. I hope it went smoothly for you.
Paula - I have never been in your situation, but my heart goes out to you (actually to all of you) who have had late losses. It must feel like it takes forever for everybody to eventually know and it must be such a shock each time you come across somebody.
Helen - So glad your spotting has stopped.
Hello to everybody I have missed. Hoping everything is going well.
Sue - Good luck tomorrow for your scan, I will be thinking of you. How are you feeling?? Try and get some sleep tonight OK!
How is everyone doing? It is still very quiet in here, but I guess that is a good thing. Nov is finally here for those TTC YAY! I had a really good day today in the way of NO sickness at all, I can't believe how easy it is to take your health for granted. I just felt like I got so much done today without having to drag myself around, the only down side is of course I start wondering why I felt so good, is the baby still OK etc! can't win can we!
Hi Helen- yes still very much with you all. Starting to get a little impatient to meet this little girl. No signs yet though of anything happening. Glad to hear you are feeling better but it is always difficult when we lose symptoms no matter how positive they are! I didn't have any symptoms this time and it drove me mad!
Sue - good luck tomorrow and I hope you receive wonderful news and see your little babys' heart beating away. Make sure you update us asap.
Hi to everyone. Hope you have all had lovely weekends.
Oooooooooooh I'm so excited for you Katie. Your little girl is probably feeling shy since there's so many people dying to meet her! I know I am.
I've been moving for the past four days and we're both absolutely shattered. Very clever thing to do the very month we want to start TTC. Duh!
Oh spotting is scary. Go away spotting! Can't wait to hear about your scan today Sue! Not long till yours either Helen.
Laney, want to hear something out of this world? DH and I didn't *ahem* for the entire five months that I was pregnant with Hamish. Not only because I spent most of my time with my head over the loo but we were scared that there would be blood and we wouldn't be able to cope. Didn't help as we now know...
Ah yes, the "how many kids do you have?" problem. Met one of my new neighbours on the weekend and she asked how many of us there are. I said two and she said "But you'll have a baby then there'll be more". That kind of excited me. But always, always, I think we are already three. I'm sure you all know the feeling.
Paula and Helen, I'm with you on "God, I miss him".
Hugs and kisses to Jo, Cindee, Rozzie, Tildy and any others :-)
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