So so sorry my love to hear of your painful goodbyes to your precious babies... :hugs:

I understand the pain of loss and that desire to want to add to your family... I have also endured comments by health professionals that at least I have children. It's hurtful, insensitive and completely unprofessional. Sadly sometimes folk cannot walk in someone elses's shoes and those hurtful comments come out... I am so sorry... :hugs:

I would highly recommend you seek out another opinion. There are many treatable reasons for miscarriage. Whilst chemical pregnancies usually (but of course not always) are due to chromosomal or egg/sperm quality issues later miscarriages/losses are often due to treatable issues.
I am 40 next month and I also understand the sound of that clock donging in your ears..

Perhaps you would also like to join the TTC after stillbirth/recurrent miscarriage/late loss thread. You will find much loving support and information from the wonderful women in there too.

Thinking of you and sending you love... :hugs: