thread: TTC AFTER Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/ Stillbirth

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  1. #1
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    Sep 2008
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    Hi Beata, so exciting that 'the line' appeared again today (anxiously waiting to celebrate) I am sure it will be even stronger tomorrow. I can understand being anxious even when you get the BFP, the whole thing is very nerve wracking, but you owe it to yourself to be elated as its been such a long time coming! I had AF type pains for about a week after she was due (if you remember, I was convinced AF was coming) and I still get tweaks etc everyday, so its all very normal - stresses us out, but normal Can't wait to hear about your news tomorrow and the official BT

    Hey Teagz, all is sticky so far thank goodness, glad to hear your NT scan went well, I can't wait to get past that stage & pray all will be well this time. I hope your scan on Friday is good, I'm sure everything will be fine.

    Cheryl, how are you chicky, I hope you are doing ok, you really deserve this BFP, hope it comes soon honey Hang in there!

    Samcougar, I really hope you get your surprise and don't have to use the OPK's, but I have heard some good things about them so hopefully they will help if need be next time.

    Aries, I agree with the girls in that people who have not walked in your shoes really can't comment. To be honest before I lost Jasmine, I may have thought a similar thing, but the urge to try for another baby straight away was quite strong for both of us. From all of the stories I have read on BB, I would say the vast majority of couples that lose a baby want to start ttc quite early on. So please don't be worried, go with how you both feel. I really pray you caught that egg hun

    AFM, time seems to be going very slowly all of a sudden, can't wait to get to 12-weeks. I have been feeling pretty lousy most days to be honest and feel like a big fat balloon, but have no right to complain really.

    Praying for that downpour in BFP's this month

  2. #2
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    Jul 2006
    Canberra
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    Hi everyone

    Thanks for thinking of me and sending me your positive thoughts for yesterday. I did remember to test - it was a BFN which wasn't really very surprising. And then I had such a @#$% day I was convinced I had pms and AF was on her way. To top it off I didn't get away from work until 6pm so I had no energy for BB last night - sorry. Today, everything is fine, still no AF and pms symptoms have gone I have just had some more AP today to try to move things along a little. I really want AF before we go overseas in 2 and a half weeks time so that I don't have to worry about having pads/tampons with me wherever I am when travelling.

    Anyway, a few quick persies as DH is cooking dinner and I'm starving

    Beata, so glad to hear that the line was stronger yesterday. How did your FS appointment go today? Hope it was all good news.

    Teagz - thanks for dropping in on us. I don't envy you your drive with a full bladder! Hope the scan all goes well.

    Samcougar and Aries, hope your BFP comes this cycle. And thanks for your fingers and toes crossing. It was much appreciated. Maybe next cycle, whenever that is!

    Megan, hope you're doing ok and not stressing too much. I have a good feeling about things working out just fine for you this time around.

    Anyway, gotta go. Take care all.
    oxo

  3. #3
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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    Hi my lovelies,

    I have a BFP!!!! Yey! I went to see my FS today and since I've already done the pee stick test (several times ) he suggested doing the BT in his office so I did and he just rang me an hour ago and told me the good news! My levels are 280 which is in the normal range.

    Thank you again for all your prayers and good wishes, you girls rock!!!!!

    Sending you lovely ladies lots of positive sticky vibes, I pray so hard they rub off on you soon

    Love & huge hugs to all

    B xxx

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    *sneaks in*

    Beata!!

    *sneaks out*

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    Dec 2008
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    Thanks gorgeous! As this is more real now, a million thoughts are running through my wee scone (that's little head in Scottish hehe) I have decided to take one day at a time and remember to breathe!!! xxx

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    Thanks gorgeous! As this is more real now, a million thoughts are running through my wee scone (that's little head in Scottish hehe) I have decided to take one day at a time and remember to breathe!!! xxx
    It's the only way chick.
    Each day that passes is a day closer that we get to hold our babies in our arms, but each day still needs to be cherished accordingly

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    Sep 2008
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    Beata WOO HOO a BIG BIG Congratulations! Such fantastic news, you and DH must be over the moon, I am so wrapped for you hun! Take good care of yourself.

  8. #8
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    May 2009
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    Hi everyone, sorry I've been missing in action. I've been really down and just not up to doing much. But I have been reading everyone's messages and especially been checking Beata's updates every day!!

    Congratulations Beata!!

    That's just the best news.

    Berry, complain away when you need to! There are lots of things about being pregnant that are a pain in the bum. We long for it, we want it, but it's still hard. I think it will be hard in a way if I ever get pregnant again and/or have another living baby, because I will feel that I should be so grateful I should never complain, but as much as I want both there are aspects of pregnancy and having a new baby that are hard.

    Aries, I worry a bit about what people think about us ttc too. But most people I know already thought I should be over it pretty early on anyway, so I've tried to worry about what's best for me and DH instead!

    Everyone still waiting, hope there is more good news here very very soon!!

    xx Bec.

  9. #9
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    Nov 2008
    Victoria
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    Congratulations Beata!
    What fantastic news to read. Heres to a H & H 8 or so months!

    Hi Bec - great to see your doing ok, yeah I have pretty much done the same thing as you have said, at the moment its DH & myself so thats who I am worrying about.

    Chez - I am sorry for your BFN, I am still hoping for you next cycle definately!

    Samcougar - Have you thought about testing soon? We are the same dpo approx and while I am not expecting a BFP this soon I am still in high hopes! Fingers are crossed for you!

    Hi Berry & Teagz - I hope you are feeling well and thank you for your support over the "other peoples issue" which is now what I am calling it! DH & I are ready for the long haul again - and if it takes that long then we better get started!!!!

    AFM - 10 dpo today and just waiting - bit scared to test so I will wait it out.

    Hugs to all xox