TTC AFTER Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/ Stillbirth

[Miss.B]

Hi Girls,

Cheryl, I hope you have the best time ever on your holiday, make the most of it and it would be so so lovely for you to come back with a nice little suprise in your belly!!! I so hope so hun .

Girls, I won't do personals as I just popped in to wish Cheryl a nice holiday. I have been suffering m/s pretty much all day, and although I can't complain as that is a good sign, I am absolutely exhausted when I get home from work so haven't been on Belly much. Have been going to bed at about 9 each night, then wake up at 3 or 4 am and need to eat something so I don't feel sick. Anyway, hope everyone is good and I will continue to lurk on everyone. Aslo, a message from Diana to say thank you so much for everyone's well wishes, she is now 26 weeks & going strong!

Big hugs and lots of for Cheryl, Samcougar (loooooooove your avvy hun!!) & Aries This thread is getting thinner by the minute!!!! Wow, I don't think there will be anyone left in here soon!

B xxx

[Berry1]

Hi Cheryl,

All the very best for your holiday, I hope you and your DH have an absolute ball and I also pray you come home with a lovely surpise Enjoy your dinner tonight to celebrate your holiday, great idea!

Will catch-up on everyone else soon.

[Aries]

Hi Ladies

Just wanted to pop in and say hi and see how you were all doing!
Hubby and I thought we were going to wait but after extensive chats we realised that we want to be parents and therefore have decided that we are back on the bus - so to speak!
So currently I am 2 DPO - luckily for me my cycle seems to have stayed at 28 days which is crazy as I have never been this regular
I am on a stay-at-home two week holiday to catch up on things and give myself lots of rest - also on my TWW. Fits in perfectly. Lots of walking and resting.
Hugs to you all

[helle]

Hey girls, just popping in to let you know I still stalking you all. Mummabec, big congrats on your BFP! I added you to my FB too, incase you're wondering who that strange girl is

Beata, sorry hun but Woot Woot for MS! I hope your BB's are killing you too haha. I hope it all starts to ease up soon though, it really is the pits when it's so severe.

Aries, Good to hear your back on the bus. I hope you get your BFP ASAP and have some fun along the way

Chez, hope you have an amazing holiday and come back with a little holiday gift, too!

Samcougar, oh really! My DF thinks he's dying whenever he gets a sneeze! Men are shockers when they're sick, I'm glad you put him back in his place & Chez, just to add to your bikini wax, I wax Df's eyebrows (he has a bit of a mono, but sshhh don't tell) and oh my god doesn't he sook!

to you all. I love popping in here and seeing everyones spirits so high. You're an amazing bunch, don't forget it!! xx

[mummabec]

Hi everyone!

Teagz, thanks. I thought that must you on fb!

Aries, lovely to have you back. Staying at home for a couple of weeks sounds perfect. Hope this is the month for you.

Beata, hope the MS settles down soon. Normally it's fun to have midnight feasts, but the feeling sick part would not be fun at all. What do you eat at 3 or 4am?

Hi to everyone else and thanks for all your congrats.

AFM, work was terrible. I didn't realise that I would come across people who didn't know (because you don't talk about stillbirth ). And then there's the stuff I got everywhere else months ago... people pretending nothing's happened, and the few that say anything say things like 'well at least you can get pregnant'. My boss has been particularly crap. Needless to say I haven't told anyone at work that I'm pregnant again. I was going to but everything just gave me such a bad feeling.
I know in some ways that no one can say the right thing. You just aren't meant to return from maternity leave without a baby.

Sorry for the winge! I'm hoping next week will be better.

xx Bec.

[Miss.B]

Hi lovelies,

Bec, I know how you feel when you go back to work and some people don't even acknowledge that you were pg. I was petrified people would swarm me when I came back to work, but when some of them kept their distance and said nothing, that really HURT. But, some people just don't know how to handle tough situations like these, so they keep their distance (that's what my only brother did )

Teagz, thanks hunni! lol. I know what you mean, it's a good sign, I think I just have to shut my pie hole and put up with it. I know it's such a teeny price to pay! How's everything with you hun? How are your wedding plans coming along??

Aries, I'm so glad you're in the game again! Woo hoo! I wish you so much good luck hun and I hope you'll be telling us all your good news soon!

Cheryl, I hope you're having a ball! Lots of & coming your way!

Megan, hi hun, how are you going?

Samcougar, hi hun! What have you been up to? Sending you heaps of and

Well, I'm off for my scan today, I'll let you know how it all goes.

Big hugs and all my love,

B xxx

[helle]

Beata, ROLF, no there needs to be an outlet sometimes! I promised myself I'd never whine once about this preg but every now and again I can't help but tell DF about my growing belly pains!
Everything is good with me! Plans are coming along nicely. For our wedding gifts we're giving the guys shooter glasses and the girls measuring spoons that are hearts and have mushy things like "a teaspoon of devotion" etch into them. They all arrived today! Very exciting & they're very pretty!
Boofhead if ticking along nicely as well, he is very active, and i'm starting to get a few big jabs now which I love!
I hope your MS settles soon, it is the pits. Bring on 14 weeks!
Good luck with your scan today too. I'm sure you won't need it though

[Samcougar]

Aries, welcome back hun, I'm so pleased you

have decided that we are back on the bus - so to speak!

I hope you are enjoying your holiday.

Teagz, LOL If I waxed DH eyebrows his eyes would pop out of their sockets!! He wont even let me near him with tweezers after i found a stray hair growing out of his nose (It was so gross, i nearly died when i seen it!) anyway I plucked it out when he wasn't expecting it and he nearly went through the roof!!

Bec, Im sorry work was rough on you on your first day back, I have been back for 16 weeks now and some people (particularly the men) are a bit funny around me when we are talking about babies. But it does get better each day

Chez, I hope your holiday is going well


well there isn't many of us left ttc now so it must be our turn
Not much happening with me at the moment, just waiting to O , I'm glad i brought an OPK it makes things so much easier (DH thinks we sould DTD everyday just in case) boy have i got news for him!! (thats not going to happen)

Oh well girls, have a lovely day
my love to all..

Lots and lots of to our preggy mummas
and lots and lots of for all of us left

Bec

[helle]

(DH thinks we sould DTD everyday just in case)

Been there, done that. If only it was that simple!
You gotta give 'em points for trying though

[Miss.B]

Hi girls,

Teagz, wow! Won't be long till your wedding now hey? I think you said October? I'll have to stalk you on FB to see all the lovely pics, maybe I'll get some idea for mine? hehehe. Your gifts sounds so cute, I honestly wouldn't have a clue what to do for mine. I'm starting to think I will be engaged FOREVER My scan went went hun, measuring exactly for dates which is good.

Samcougar, lets hope you get your BFP very soon, good idea with the OPK's they are very good and take the guessing out of the whole thing.

Lots of for you girls!

My love and hugs to all and I'll keep lurking on you guys!

B xxx

[blessedatlast]

Hi Everyone,

I have missed BB! My computer has been out of action.. Still doesn't work properly! Anyway, I had a quick scan of posts.. Way too many to catch up on, so this is where I am at: I went off the pill end of May and have finally stopped bleeding for more than a week at a time, so I am REALLY hoping my cycles are getting better. I Started TAFE doing Aged Care and loving it. It is good to have something to think about other than Taite and Seth and TTC.. I finish my course in Nov and HOPE to be pregnant then or soon after.. Fingers crossed for me!

[Aries]

Hi Ladies

Thanks for you warm welcome backs! I didnt expect to be gone such a short time, but hubby had other ideas and I secretly am very pleased

Just a quick post what do you think about these pains Im having? I am 4 DPO and am having really weird tugging sensations around both ovaries, one is actually quite painful at times! Way too early for a pg test and ovulation test isnt picking up a surge which I wouldnt expect anyway due to ovulating last Saturday. So I am quite concerned. I had these sensations or quite like them when I fell with Alexander but I also had them when I was getting AF last month. The only two things I can think of are did I ovulate earlier than predicted or have my cycles changed to really short ones and am expecting AF anyday I hope not cos it only finished last Tuesday! Strange tingles in my bb's too. I am not expecting you to say anything as it is too early but has anyone else experienced this at all?

Thanks in advance

[Berry1]

Hi Blessedatlast, congrats on starting the Tafe course, good to hear you are enjoying it. I think it helps to keep your mind of ttc & our angels as well, it can get quite overwhelming at times, but seems like you have some great direction & plans. I really pray you get your BFP soon

Aries, glad that you weren't gone for long . Not sure about the pains you are experiencing, but I wouldn't be too concerned right now. If your cycle's are usually regular, I am sure you did O. I'm fairly sure I have had similar pains in the past. I really pray there is an attachment happening, that would be rather nice, wouldn't it Take care & keep us posted.

Beata, hope you are feeling ok and getting through the m/s. I seem to get mine at night right when I am trying to get to sleep.

Samcougar, I really pray you catch the egg this cycle, all the very best

Teagz, sound like things are going really well for you hun, wedding bells aren't far away and sounds like your little guy is growing nicely. I read somewhere that you are expecting a boy! congratulations!

AFM, I am still stalking you guys all the time. I have my NT scan in 2-weeks, can't wait to get past that stage. Still praying for a really good result this time

[Berry1]

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