thread: TTC AFTER Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/ Stillbirth 2010

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  1. #1
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    Aug 2009
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    Blessed - AWESOME. Congrats, but you know, its just confirmation of what we already knew?

  2. #2
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    Jun 2007
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    Ditto Dory! Well done Blessed, you are a star!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Canberra
    670

    Hi ladies

    Blessedatlasst - yay Well done! You must be thrilled! Make sure you treat yourself for all of your hard work!

    Dory and Gigi - thanks for your kind words. I agree, we do have to learn to treat ourselves better and put ourselves first sometimes. I find recognising when I need to do that is the hardest. I will endeavour to do that more often.

    Crumpet and TeniBear - I find the build up to my EDD was very hard so I understand what you are going through right now. We decided to mark Ryan's EDD with a quiet picnic beside a lake in the late afternoon. We watched the sun going down and cast a flower into the water and said some quiet words and then sat there and watched the flower float away in the fading sunlight. We took some photos to remember the spot (we were in France) and to remember the day. We have shown my ILs who were respectful of the time, but no-one else. I guess it should be as public or private an event as you want - whatever feels right. I know some other ladies who released balloons with messages written on them, and written their baby's name in the sand at the beach. I hope you both find some way to recognise the day and be at peace with it.

    Hi to Samcougar, aries, my2boys, charlieb, angelicdragon and everyone else.

    AFM - had my GP appointment today. Pap smear was done but as I'm CD5 there was a tiny bit of blood which might render it invalid. If that happens I have to wait 3 to 6 months before another one! Oh well. Came out of the Dr's office with a handful of paperwork - more b/t day 1 and 21 usual tests, plus referrals for two specialists - one for IVF and one for a colonoscopy - yay! I get one done every 5 years because of a family history of bowel cancer so my GP has recommended getting it done before starting IVF again. I'm lucky that my GP is lovely - she was very encouraging about trying IVF again, so that was good. DH even made it to the appointment which was nice. DH hasn't had a drink since last Saturday night - he is such a wonderful caring man. I really hope that what Dory says is right and that even if he can't do this all of the time that it may make a difference!

    Anyway, time to order pizza for dinner - our treat to ourselves for such a busy week!

    Take care all and have a happy Easter! I hope the Easter bunny brings a fertilised egg to all of us
    oxo

  4. #4
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    Jun 2007
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    Enjoy you pizza hun and aren't our men just gorgeous. Glad all is being sorted for you. That is a bucket load of tests and I hope they all go well. You are a trooper!
    xoxoox

  5. #5
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    Hello my beautiful friends,

    I'm sorry I've been MIA, but have been so tired lately with the new wee man in my life. But every time I whinge to anyone about it who is willing to listen, I remind myself how lucky I really am!

    So, I've dropped in to say hello and to say that I often think about you ladies and I pray that soon you'll be seeing those two lovely lines!!

    Welcome to the newbies, and I'm so sorry you have lost your precious angels I hope your stay in here is a very short one.

    So I'm spreading loads of baby dust and sticky vibes in here, and hope this group gets smaller and smaller!

    Lots of hugs to all,
    B xxx

  6. #6
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    Jul 2006
    Canberra
    670

    Hi Beata

    It is so good to hear from you! I don't have the courage to read the BAs so was hoping you would drop by and let us know how you are going. Congratulations on your beautiful little boy - how I long to be tired because of looking after a newborn - you are so very lucky What name did you give to him? I hope you are all healthy and getting stronger by the day. Happy first Easter to Beata's baby boy!

    oxoxoxo

  7. #7
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    4,637

    Hi Cheryl! Thank you so much for your warm congrats hun. We named our man Cameron Oliver Mario, my DF liked Cameron and I liked Oliver and we used Mario as that's my dad's name. I feel so blessed hun, and believe me, when it's your turn, you'll take all the tiredness, soreness, and everything else with a smile on your face! Maybe not the sleep depravation...lol.

    Have a Happy Easter hun and hang in there! I still stalk you guys (hope you don't mind), maybe not as often now, but I do, just waiting anxiously and excitedly for the next BFP!!

    Big hugs!

    PS Happy Easter to everyone else! Now we all have a good excuse of stuffing our faces with chcolate! hehehe.

    B xxx