Dear CharlieB,
Of course you may, I am just so sorry you need to to be here.

You lost your baby boy such a short time ago. No doubt you are confused and shocked still hun. It can take time to hit you. Only you will know how best to handle your grief and I hope you find comfort. No one will be able to tell you when the time is right. You sound quite grounded sweet but be gentle with yourself for as long as you can.
As for Ovulating, we are all different and if you had not problems before you could almost be sure that you will start again as soon as AF starts again. I guess i would be wanting to be sure there was nothing retained and cycles are functioning normally (your normally) before starting again.
Your body will take time to heal hun.
It is a very real fear that 'what if you can't conceive again', and especially if you had challenges the first time which i hope you didn't. Would not wish it on my worst enemy. It is one of the hardest things to do is to surrender. Do what you can, all you can to be healthy and happy and surrender. I am not so good at letting things just 'be'...i fiddle.

I hope you find peace and space to make your decisions.
Love Hm xoxo