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  1. #1
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    Dec 2006
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    LOL!

  2. #2
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    Oct 2006
    686

    Hi Girls,

    Tommysmum - for you and your family; Happy Birthday Tommy.

    Spring - I can imagine how hard the birthday party was for you, you are very brave to have gotten through it with only 3 breakdowns! I hope lil Spring helped you get through

    Lynn - YUUUUUUM! Hope your sending some of those puddings my way I a glad you have had a positive day, hope you can stay positive until you get that BFP next week

    Deb - We did travel into the town and we went into Colin James and the info centre, but mainly we were looking for the cheese factory and got lost in all the fog it was amazing I have never seen anything like it! So cool to watch it come in the windows. My friend and I kept laughing though saying it reminded us of something from a movie like I Know What You Did Last Summer or something LOL. We could have passed each other on the street, how weird is it to think that?

    Bailey - LOL @ porkchop sandwiches, you crack me up So nice to find another sicko!

    Hi to everyone else.

    Well the agency got me replaced so I dont have to go back there again!!!!!! So next week I am working for a general surgeon at RWH (same hosp, and floor, as my OB) for 4 days. Nothing booked at this stage for a couple of weeks after that. But then I am going back to the place I was working for up until last week as of the 18th June for 2-6 weeks while they recruit (they offered me the perm job but I said no) so I am looking forward to that cause they were really nice people. Admittedly there were some baby/pregnancy things that came up but I really do believe it will come up in some way no matter where I am. Wonder if they are bummed they bought me farewell flowers and took me out to lunch now LOL. Apparently they are wrapped I am going back, so that is nice to hear.

    On the TTC front - I guess it would come as no surprise that I am not UTD again this month I tested this morning and got BFN but AF didnt show, after bowling tonight went to toilet and when I wiped I had pink on the paper so now am just waiting for the heavy flow to arrive. I dont really know what to do. Now we have to wait until our "post coital test" (she says with a giggle LOL) and FS will check if sperm can swim through CM. If they cant he will organise IUI. If they can he said IUI will not help and so more investigations will have to be done, and maybe IVF - I cannot believe this is happening! First we lose Nicholas 2 weeks before we were going to meet him and now we seem to be infertile - aint life grand?!?!?!?!

    Thats my whinge for now, I hope you all have a nice lazy Sunday.

    Goodnight, sweet dreams - Mel
    Last edited by Mel1977; May 26th, 2007 at 11:26 PM.

  3. #3
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    Feb 2007
    Sydney, NSW
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    Hi Mel - sorry to hear that AF is on her way and the news on the TTC front - it is just not fair i know. I do hope that things improve very quickly for you so that we can see some permanent smiles on your face. Thinking of you.

    Spring - i am glad that you have got through seeing the babies -it is tough but it is only making you stronger that is for sure. Unfortunatley it is something that we cannot hide from - there are too many pg women out there and too many new borns - but i guess that is what we all want in the end....

    Lynn - you forgot about HoBo for your baby's name. Pudding sounds yummy - do you have a spare piece for me ? Hope you are doing well..not long now... And yes i think you are right about me having a boy - was that from the lunar-tic calendar too ? I hope you are right but i know i will still be happy no matter what sex we have.

    Bailey - how are you feeling - any MS yet ?

    Hello to everyone else - hope you are having a lazy sunday.

    Went out for dinner (Seafood) last night and do you think i could eat much of it ? I felt so full (being constipated) so trying to shove a lobster my throat was impossible. There was so much i would have eaten if i had an empty stomach but NO it was not to be. I did however manage to eat about 5 oysters Kilpatrick - god they are sooo yummy.

  4. #4
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    Dec 2006
    Sydney
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    Hi girls,

    I just wanted to check in on Mel to see if AF arrived?? Hoping not and sending lots of Anti-AF vibes!
    Will come in later to see how everyone is doing.

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    Oct 2006
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    I am really worried and I dont know what is wrong with me - AF arrived and it is heavy but it is brown, not red like usual start of period, I have severe cramping to the point where I am struggling to tidy the house, I feel really faint and nearly passed out when I was trying to vacuum, and I feel like I am overheating. This is not my usual period and DH is not home, I know I am being a worry wart but I have never felt like this with AF before

  6. #6
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    Dec 2006
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    Mel I am so sorry AF arrived. Can you call your dr and talk to him about the colouring and cramping? Can you go to a medical centre if your dr is not available? I'm worried about you, I hope you are ok. I hear you about first losing a baby then fertility problems - it sucks!! I hope so much that they can help you next cycle to get you that magical bfp because you deserve it so much. The good thing is that there is a plan and that has to be a positive. Let me know how the cramping is going. Thinking of you

  7. #7
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    Dec 2006
    Sydney
    459

    Mel, are you OK? have you been to the doctor? Let us know how everything worked out.