Spring - 12 weeks!! Yay!! I don't think anyone can offer any advice that could top the wisdom from Dream. I think you really are stuck, I can understand that you are reluctant to tell everyone, I always said the same thing, that I would try to keep the next one a secret until I could'nt hide the belly anymore. It's a hard one. It just sucks that we feel that we can't shout this happy news to the world, that we have to fear telling people we are pregnant until we reach a certain time. Maybe have another chat to DH and just explain your reasons and I am sure he will have to agree with you. I am sure you can be very convincing That is great you found a good doula, Lil Spring is picking up quite an entourage huh!
Dream - I know what you mean about them maybe not wanting the cuddles in a few years I always say that to DP, what will we do when he is embarassed to be seen with us, or when he swears at us. Lol, I think my world will crash then. Every morning after DP goes to work, I grab DS a bottle of chocolate milk (he still likes a bottle every now and then) and we cuddle up in bed and watch cartoons together, it's my favourite time of the day, I can't imagine life without it.
Flowerchild - Lol on your fish drama....it sounds like an episode of some sitcom. Glad there was a happy ending for everyone.
Lynn - Where have you been? How are you doing?
Mel - How did you go today? I have been thinking of you all day. I hope you guys are well.
I had a hard night last night, nothing really specific, just we went out to dinner with a group of friends and one of them has a 5 month old daughter, so cute. Holding her just made me think of what I am missing out on iykwim. Asha would be roughly the same age and size etc. Just kind of made me feel jealous, not in a bad way to my friend, just in a sad way for us. All of us, we all don't have what we should. it all just sent many thought's buzzing around in my head. I used to always think that things happen for a reason. I'm not religeous or anything, I have no idea what goes on out there, but I have no idea what the reasons are for this happening to all of us. Is it just random?? Or is there a big plan?? I don't know.
Sorry, much rambling isn't there...lol, it's funny when you just write and see what comes out...I'm not crazy, I promise.
Oh, I don't think I have told you all, I am making an honest man out of DP in 2 weeks. Lol, we have decided to get hitched, finally after 10 and a half years of putiing up with eachother. Just going to the registry, it's quick, cheap and they supply the vows. Lol, that is so me, I am so half-@rsed in everything I do.
Well after all that rambling, i will talk to ya'll later.
12 weeks!! Yay!! I don't think anyone can offer any advice that could top the wisdom from Dream. I think you really are stuck, I can understand that you are reluctant to tell everyone, I always said the same thing, that I would try to keep the next one a secret until I could'nt hide the belly anymore. It's a hard one. It just sucks that we feel that we can't shout this happy news to the world, that we have to fear telling people we are pregnant until we reach a certain time. Maybe have another chat to DH and just explain your reasons and I am sure he will have to agree with you. I am sure you can be very convincing
That is great you found a good doula, Lil Spring is picking up quite an entourage huh!
I always say that to DP, what will we do when he is embarassed to be seen with us, or when he swears at us. Lol, I think my world will crash then. Every morning after DP goes to work, I grab DS a bottle of chocolate milk (he still likes a bottle every now and then) and we cuddle up in bed and watch cartoons together, it's my favourite time of the day, I can't imagine life without it.
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