Hiya
Glad to hear you are all doing well - I just wanted to say that we packed our nursery up the day I got home from the hospital and we have put it all into storage. We found that everything was so difficult that we wanted to get it all done straight away so that we could start to grieve without a constant reminder of what should have been.

I found that I too could not walk past the room without remembering what it looked like inside so we bought new furniture (single bed, bedside table, etc.) and have it set up as a spare room. Not sure if this helped, but we found it was the thing to do for us.

Spring - hope you had a good time in Canberra and that it was not too cold for you. Let me know if you saw a good meeting place between sydney and canberra.