Tommysmum - You gotta have a nickname! Suggestions... what about "lil Zhen"? Zhen means "precious" in chinese - and what could be more precious than your little bean? Anyway, maybe the others have some suggestions?

I cant wait for my appointment either, and I will let you know all about it And I have to admit that the only thing getting me through is that we are doing something! It is so frustrating but I just know deep down it will happen one day