TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after the First Trimester April

[Mel1977]

Thanks Spring, yeah I had a feeling that was the case too... but what is considered too much or too little? I just want to do exactly the right thing. I was wrong by the way I think I am due to O on Sunday. The O calculator tells me we should start DTD on Friday through to mid week the following week but yet I remember when I was at the dr (you know the one who was giving me tips on positions ) he told me we should NOT DTD for a couple of days before my O day for the same reason as you just said. How do we know the right thing to do? Especially when the results show DH has 90% poor quality sperm, how do we get it right? Aaaaargh

[Lynn]

Hey Mel, I think you only need to DTD every second day. Are you charting? Do you know when you def are ovulating?

[Spring Angel]

Can you ring the people who tested the sperm and ask them given DH's results, what would be the best time to DTD? It may be a case for some people it should be as much as possible and for other people it should be every 2nd day.

It is hard to know, but I don't think doing it morning and night would be necessary and may be counter productive.

But then again I have no idea really and I am just going on what I have read previously.

Lv Spring

[Spring Angel]

Nighty ni girls.

Just checked the time and it is getting to be past my bedtime for a school night (lol)

Talk tomorrow

Sweet dreams,
Luv Spring

[Mel1977]

I am not sure if they know, I guess I could ring my OB and ask his advice - not that he is a sexual councellor or anything - the other thing I read is that tests can vary on different occasions and I really think it would be worth getting DH to do another sample to confirm that the results were correct but he says it was bad enough doing it the first time he is not doing it again... Men can be such babies sometimes!

But anyway, I might give OB a call on my lunch break one day this week. I wish I could stop stressing about this but its practically impossible.

Oh and no I am not charting, I dont really know how to except with OPKs and I dont have any left and didnt buy any. I guess I could always buy some from supermarket unless you have any other ideas.

Thanks girls