thread: TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after the First Trimester April

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  1. #1
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    Feb 2005
    NSW/VIC Border
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    Hi all!

    Chelle - Huge Congrats on the BFP

    Lynne - My angels name is Storm Piper, I didn't realise I hadn't told you all her name

    well today is Storms 3 month birhtday, it so feels like it was just yesterday.
    I think I might wander down to the cemetary with some flowers!

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    Oct 2006
    686

    Jo - Big :hugs: to you today for Storm's birthday. That is a beautiful idea to take some flowers to the cemetary for her. I hope you get through the day as ok as possible.

    Chelle - I am so glad you are feeling better today, enjoy growing your bubba you deserve to I might follow your drs advice and go with the every 2nd day, I guess especially if DH has 90% poor quality we want to save the good quality ones up.

    I did tell DH we would take the pressure off this month pretty much to make him feel a bit better about the results cause he is obviously feeling a little down about it and also cause I am not overly confident this month, but I mentioned to him last night I would like to buy some OPKs from supermarket and not be too strict on DTD this month except for the day I O, and he said that isnt taking the pressure off so he thinks we should just leave it to chance. But I was thinking maybe I will get them anyway and maybe not tell him - does anyone think that is really wrong? Like I dont want to lie to him so if it is classed as lying I dont think I could do it. If it was a case of what he doesnt know wont hurt him then it would be ok iykwim. I also mentioned that it might be worth having another SA done and he wasnt keen so he said check what the OB thinks and if he thinks we should he will but otherwise no he is not gonna do it just for the hell of it (I cant really argue with that can I). But I think he is keen to wait until we see the FS on 15th May until we do anymore tests and things cause he says it is only 1 more month and basically see how we go this month and start taking action after that appointment. What do you girls think? Do you think he is right and just to ride it out until May?

    Anyway, I guess you will have noticed I am not at work... I went to dr this morning cause I have UTI - so now I am on antibiotics and going to the toilet every 5 mins to do nothing but a trickle She said that I probably have it because I am a bit run down, the cold I just had being proof of that. But oh well I will live, and I should start feeling a bit better by the end of tonight and I will be back at work tomorrow.

    Lynn - I hope you are feeling a bit better today

    Oh well dont know if anyone will be around today, if not have a lovely day.

    Love Mel

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    Oct 2006
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    P.S. Can any of you girls recommend a good OPK that you can get from the supermarket? Hopefully one that will give me a positive on the actual day I O although I am not sure if that is possible. The only ones I have ever used are the ones from the website Spring recommended to me ages ago but if I order those now I wont get them in time. Basically I just want something reliable. Thanks