Sorry your day started off so badly Mel - it is difficult when our DH's seem to be handling it so well. My DH does not say anything normally just sits and listens to me when I want to cry. But now and again he will say something and it is really hard to know what to say in response as it is a shock. I hope you get the advice you want from the S&K meeting tonight - you have to stick together to get through this (and you both will!).

Thinking of you - Tess.