Hi Tess

Did you get a 2nd opinion as to what may have happened ? Could it be that you need a "stitch" ? To be honest i have no idea about any of this stuff but i have heard of a couple of cases (where mum went into labour at say 25 weeks) and all they needed was a "stitch". Don't know how you find out if you need one or not (i guess some sort of internal/exam etc). I have a friend who had her baby at 25 weeks (no reason was given as to why it happened) - her baby survived though (just) but not without several operations to heart, eyes, body etc. I must say though he looks fine now (he is 5) but still has a couple of visible reminders. I think he was just a lucky one - i am not trying to upset you about this - just trying to help. I hope an answer is given to you (or some possibilities of what may have happened). Did you do an autopsy on Thomas (if you did i am guessing all was fine)....

Symptoms 6 DPO - not sure about that one although when i tested for this pg (had those feelings it came up Neg but then i tested a week later and it was Pos). So why not wait a few days and see if you still have those symptoms - go and get a HPL -

Mel - Wow that lady from work sounds very compasionate - these are the people we want around us hey ! It is great to know that people want to know and learn and why not share it i say. Pity about the supervisor (she did know what happened didn't she ???) though - no tact.

Bailey - 10 weeks - going very slow i tell you - goign to be the longest pg on the planet ! Yes still sick - almost every day i feel something - i nearly threw up the other day (first time in all pg's). Not to mention that i wet my pants a lot (when i sneeze). So what is going on with you - do you want the "calendars" i use - remember i have fallend 3 times by using these withint the first 1-2 cycles. This is the only thing i have ever used and i swear by it !

Yes - the S&K meeting is on next Wednesday but it starts at 10.00 this time (as you know we chat sooooo much). So i will pick you up around 9.15am. Last meeting was good - there was supposed to be another mum turn up but she didn't make it - hope she comes this week.


Hello and good luck to everyone else. Will be thinking of all you special mothers on Mothers Day - i know it will be sad but our babies will be watching over us tomorrow. Will talk to you then anyway.