Hello Sunflower- I have also had 2 m/c this year, one at 6 weeks in Jan and one at 12 weeks in July but I waited to m/c naturally (it was a missed m/c) and am just m/c now, so it was a long wait. I totally understand your confusion, especially if you had a child easily before. It is a real shock and rarely makes sense to anyone. Try not to beat yourself up over it as there may not be a specific reason for them to occur. Most women never know why it happens to them. I never expected it once, let alone twice. I'm healthy and my DF is also very healthy. We've had his blood checked to see that all his chromosomes are normal. You can ask for that test for you and your DH, although I think it cost around $500. I'm going to have that test done when this m/c is over. The other test you will be able to find on another thread as Satya said. Have you been onto the TTCAML thread? It's worth popping into if you want to chat to women that have been through m/c. I hope that wasn't too long and boring and you found it a bit useful.

Cheers,
EMs