we are now allowed to TTC

[Katiegirl]

Hi Sunshine. I am sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter Angelina Marie. It sounds like your drs are taking good care of you, which should give you some peace of mind now that you can TTC again. I would suggest you don't tell your family that you are trying. I had people (not my family but random people) asking when we were allowed to start trying again and this was only about 1 month after we lost Nathaniel. I told people that we were waiting for a few months etc, even though we started trying 1 month after the D&C. It meant that when I did fall pregnant in Feb we didn't have people guessing etc, and we were able to keep it quiet until we felt comfortable telling people (which I found very difficult as it was so emotional for me). So if people are asking, just tell them you aren't rushing and are waiting a bit longer or something. It is very wrong for anyone to ask if you are pregnant no matter what your story is, so just ignore them and don't let the pressure get to you. Take care.