Thanks lulu,

Its comforting to know it is normal.i just wasnt sure what i should be expecting at this stage.i get confused on whether to treat them as 11 weekers or 3 weekers iykwim.my dp has been great and i have a supportive sil.its hard to get time to eat or do anything except feed and wash at this stage.You have been there and probably are still going thru it with 2 little ones so it gives me hope that things will get better.Thanks again
Linny