thanks to everyone.i guess its just a matter of looking around and seeing what feels right? yeah the EDD is bizarre because every appointment we have had has had a meaning so far.the embryos were transferred on fri 13th oct and my hosp appointment was 9th jan which was my late mums bday and the next one is valentines day!!my sisiter is putting a baby shower on for me on april fools day.i dont know what sex they are yet unfortunately but cant wait to find out next visit.this site has been great to chat and getting lots of great support.