I agree with everything PN said to you and know she said it from a very genuine place for you and for others on BB. Its disappointing that nowadays we have to be so wary of people and stories on online forums but that is they way the world is. We as a BB community have to ensure that we can provide as much as help as we can but also to protect ourselves.

I also thought the same thing as forshelby - your defensive and abrupt post is a little confusing when everyone has shown nothing but support and help with your situation. Sometimes the truth is the hardest thing to hear, but it is always comes from a well meaning place.