Wow, it is amazing to read how much I have learned through this incredible pregnancy and birthing process.
I ended up having my dream home birth two weeks ago, my little boy was born after a 5 hour labour.
I had two midwives look after me for the pregnancy and birth (both incredible women) as well as my partner and best friend.
I see the support of my friend as similar to that of a doula, and if her presence hadn't been an option, I would have also had a doula - there was definately plenty going on to keep everyone busy!
I feel honoured to have such a wonderful pregnancy and birthing experience and will absolutely be doing the same for the next.
I truely feel that no matter where you choose to birth having the support of an independent midwife or doula (regardless of how much support you have from friends and family) is a priceless and wonderful thing.

must go, time to feed my wonderful new little man - what a wonderful life!!!!