Bridget, did you get that bit of info I sent you via email?

What DP needs to understand is that doulas don't take the role of your partner, and he would be amazed at how well he would get to know this doula before the birth.

I think you really need to get him to understand that your birth is not a textbook birth. Women attempting VBAC are treated differently and he will need to be prepared for this.

Good luck, and let me know if I can help you futher. Maybe I could come for a visit when he is home (when I am feeling a little better )

xx