Thank u so much Julie,u know i almost feel like crying finding out all these things & not knowing about them b4.
I only came across Belly Belly by accident but i'm so glad i did.
I would actually b very grateful if u could give me a starting point on where to find doulas in my area(i'm in the caboolture shire,about 40 mins or so from Brisbane city) & i will definitely take a look at the link u have there.
Thanks again