Hi littleberlin,

I am a Doula and I think you are absolutely right to expect not only physical support but also emotional support. I see this as definately one of my roles as a Doula.

I recently attended a birth with similar circumstances to yours. Mum was extremely anxious about induction, her ability to cope, and the safety of her baby. We spent alot of time learning about the process of an induction and I encouraged her to speak with this at length with her OB. During the learning process we also discussed and planned to implement ways that would assist her to cope and as the time drew closer I believe she was in a much better head space. She needed alot of encouragement and emotional support and with our pre-natal visits, regular emails and calls I know she was satisfied.

The result was indeed an induction and one of the most beautiful and empowering births that I have been involved with. Throughout the labour just a simple reminder of the things we had learned and lots of encouragement was all she needed to keep herself together. She was amazing and very proud of herself afterwards quite understandably.

Maybe let your Doula know how you feel and explore this together. As a student and not having been through this herself she may not be aware of how you feel or what your expectations are, but I do not for a second think you are being too needy.

Good luck to you