when should I "book" a doula?

[SamiH]

Now, NOW NOW

You need to find one that fits with you, and then build the relationship so you are completely trusting and confident going into the birth.

I started about the the same stage you are and booked my doula once we had made our decision at 18/19 weeks.

good luck with your VBAC and welcome to BB

[Trish]

Alice, welcome to BB. I'm sure you will love it here.

Good on you for seeking out a doula to assist you in your VBAC. I'm sure when you find her a great assest to your birth.

I have gotten a client at about 32 weeks, 30 weeks and I have gotten a client at 5 weeks. I guess it really depends on the doula and how busy she is.

Take the time to get to know your doula, be sure that she is supportive of your birth wishes. Most doulas are very supportive of VBAC's and want to see you get the very best.

Congratulations on your pregnancy and goodluck !

[Olive]

i booked mine at about 5-6 weeks!

[BellyBelly]

Depends if you want to have your first choice or not and if you want time to build up a relationship... some doulas can fit in births last minute, but many are also getting so busy now that they just can't take them on even months before. I am getting really strict now too, it's exhausting work but we love it.

[Antheia]

I had an interview with about 4 doulas and i picked mine at around 10 weeks. It's good to meet with more than one before you choose just to see who you click with more.

[Tobily]

About where you are now is a really good time.

It means you'll still have a choice and you'll have time to build a relationship with her before the big day.