Thanks MummzySair, is good to hear how others have gone. And that is the kind of age gap I think I will be hoping for too. (I still have to laugh at myself that I am planning already! DH thinks I'm crazy!). I think I have just been thinking about all of these things so I have a list of questions for my Ob at the six week check up. I think I am going to have more questions at this appointment than i had in my whole pregnancy! LOL