My experience was that I got a very clingy DS for a couple of weeks - although he was at 10 sucks every few days when we stopped. And my supply was such that that might of been 10ml - I wasn't tandem feeding...

He went back to fondling me in public for a few weeks too - especially in the supermarket when he was sitting in the trolley and they were "there".

My feeling is the oxytocin is also as much from skin-to-skin as it is from actual milk at this point - but if you are "all touched out" then you probably aren't going to feel like that either.

Thinking a bit more, I feel that with an older child it is incredibly important not to send a mixed message - so if you say "no more" then it really really has to be no more. It can't be "unless you skin your knee and scream lots". This is such an important thing to the kid that if they learn that they can make Mum back down here then they will assume that they can make you back on anything. But if you don't say "no more", you just say "Mum's exhausted, can we do this when we wake up" then you're not taking that risk.