No not much time without him and I dont think she has even been in contact with the ABA
If she is anywhere near him he wont settle for anyone else even daddy
He has his moments sometimes he can be distracted but it doesn't last long
I think if she is not home he can be settled but I haven't seen him without her for along time
I tried to settle him yesterday while she took a time out outside and he calmed down but as soon as I was out of sight he screamed (even with he fave cartoons on to distract him)
Its just a bit worrying as I dont want to see her getting depressed or upset cos she cant have time out or down time from him