Thanks everyone for your replies, I really do appreciate them

Yesterday DS1 had football in the middle of the day & it was going to be a bit tricky to manage the pump, so I just skipped it. I expressed a bit earlier last night & got loads but I wasn't too uncomfortable in the meantime.
So I said to DH I am thinking about dropping the midday pump & just seeing where we go from there. We still have a month to go until she's one ... I might have more of a leaning one way or the other then.

She's sick ATM & a bit off her food & she had almost 300ml overnight... so I still reluctant to drop it altogether just yet.

But as I said, I'll give it a bit longer until I have to decide, and in the meantime things will get a bit easier again if I drop the midday pump (although I think maybeI will still express for comfort if I have to, until it reduces a bit).

was getting up at 2am each night to express but the girls were sleeping through (crazy i know)
Lol, I did the same until 6 months & that was enough! I think that's just amazxing of you to do with twins! well done