Hey, scarily enough my 30th is getting way too close. I want to have a celebration given that i've never had a big party for myself for anything. I don't want anything extreme and big and huge, but i want it to be special and nice and i want to wear a new dress and shoes (so excluding a backyard bbq!)
Give me suggestions, idea's, themes, etc that you have done for a big birthday celebration for yourself, or one you've been to thats been fantastic.
I'm looking at 40 - 50 guests all up (so not huge)

Thanks!!