maybe hire a hall, and have a noice dinner, with family and friends, little dance to some music :-)

I am actually a fan of the backyard barbie :-) My Mate had a Backyard 30th completly with kareoke, jellywrestling, slushy machines (for the alcohol ;-)) There was lots of food, lots of people, and even better, lots of fun. and the best part, you don't have to worry about anyone driving home (well I walked home, and the people that drank stayed)