a high tea, chocolate tour or the pamper party sound fantastic in my book! I didn't have a baby shower but I think I will next bub so I'd love some good ideas for that too. I think what you do would really depend on how you are feeling and how pregnant you will be when you have it. I know I was really sore at different times so it can be hard to tell but I do that by 34 weeks I was only good for about 1 hour out and about walking so something which is relatively non active would be important for me... Sorry I don't have any more ideas for you!