wow, i will definately be in touch with dan murphys! thanks heaps.
yeah, the finger food thing sounds good in regards to those points you made above so i am leaning towards that howver all the finger food type weddings i have been to in the past i felt that there just wasnt enough food to go around. plus i dont want to have to be fussing around in the kitchen all day. hmmm.. something to think about! :-)