The best gift i got was -
a mirror i could attatch to the back of the car seat so i can see DS in the car while he is rear facing
I use it just about every day
- I got mine today from my friend who co-hosted my shower & wanted to wait & see what I got before she bought anything. I was excited! So wanted one of these.

The things I really wanted / hoped for were the things that were useful or lovely but a bit extravagant for us. Like the mirror for the car - it was only $40 but not something we would have spent money on at this point.

The other thing I would have loved but didn't ask for (too much $ !) was a cleaner. So depending on how much you want to spend...