Bridal Shower / Hen's Night - Help !!!

[Beach Mama]

My GF had a red theme! It was great because people could go all out or subtle with earrings etc... and we had red drinks like cosmos all night! We didn't have a cake but doesn't mean you don't have to - maybe a phallic shaped one would be appropriate! hehe! Although the one I planned was tame too we still had fun with straws etc and just recently went to one at the Sofitel - very posh,m but we had fun with our straws in champers and the bride wore little leopard print ear headband instead of a veil! Have fun planning!

[Heaven]

I don't think cakes are the norm. But my bridesmaids made one for me complete with chocolate penis's on top, rofl, lovely.

[SugarDust]

I have no idea sorry.

I have never been to a hens night/kitchen tea or anything.

I'm the 1st in my very small group of friends that will be getting married sooner or later!