Thanks for filling me in lovely ladies! where would I be without you guys? So I am thinking I'll get a gift, probably a nice little money box or keep sake type thing. The little girl is 20 months, so I think our baby pressies are a bit outdated now LOL and they're also really good friends of ours so I don't mind spending a little bit. Still not sure what to wear though. Still not sure what I'm going to wear, think I'll have to check with my friend. Thanks again.