Moo's first kid focused party was last year when he turned 4. We did the playcentre party and he had a ball Our local sounds a little different to yours though. We had our own instructor who took the kids to a sectioned off area that is like an indoor basketball court, and played games with them. We also had our own party room etc so all I had to provide was the cake, loved the zero prep and cleaning!
Buster had a kid focused 1st birthday party as all of Moo's friends came as their parents are our friends lol. I did a teddy bear theme which made the food really easy. The best thing I did was hire a jumping castle as the kids just went mad on it! I also set up a little picnic rug with a tiny china tea set which all of them loved.
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