Grrr FSIL as bridesmaid VENT

[MrsBump]

Well my FSIL is a bridesmaid (aswell as my sister and 3 friends) and she is driving me BONKERS!
its all about her, what type of style dress SHE wants, what colour SHE wants, where SHE wants to go for MY hens night, blah blah blah...
I want a pink dress for them, tea length, with silver shoes, i have to turn into a bridezilla and tell her. The thing is she is only in the bridal party coz she CRIED coz she wasnt.... Now she making it all about her!

Ok best go now before i say something mean.. But what would YOU do?

[~Belinda~]

how annoying! she cried as she wasn't in the bridal party? no offence but what an idiot. there's no way i would have allowed her in the bridal party, my wedding, not hers. if she couldn't deal with it, that's her problem.

[foreva*your*mummy]

Oh I agree with eveningstar!! you have to say something, i no its hard and some peopole dont like to but i think you have too, Just tell her if shedosnt like it theway you are doing it, then she dosnt have to be in the wedding party!!
good luck with her and the wedding

[visitor1]

Argh sounds so much like my own sister when i was getting married. Everything id picked out wasnt good enough for her....and i stood my ground. Like it or lump it.....in the end she said 'i dont want to be in your bridal party'..LOL

[Miss K]

I had the exact same problem!! What you need to do is just say to her this is MY wedding this is how I want MY bridesmaids to be if YOU do not like that there is the door make sure it doesn't hit you on the way out lol!!! This is supposed to be fun if you are already having the stress's tell her to walk I would!! Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your wedding you will find that you will have wished that you did it your way and regret it

[Lulu]

Can you get one of the other bridesmaids to pull her up for you??

Its not supposed to be like this. Just get her measurements, get the dress made and give it to her....that is if you still want her around.

[~Kaz~]

Hey - sounds a bit weird to me. Who cries over something like that? Do you know her well?

Could you enlist the help of your sister and three mates who are the other bridesmaids to try and shift her perspective (i.e. that it's actually ALL ABOUT YOU ). As long as you have the support of the other 4 girls who will take your lead on things like dress, shoes and hens location she will be outnumbered. I'd get them to help you so you don't have to become a horrible brideszilla!! Good luck

[Phteven]

what a PITA.
The problem is that she's going to be family for life so maybe a compromise might work. I personlly don't like the thing where all the bridesmaids wear the same dress because it always looks dreaful on one of them who has the wrong body to carry it off. Maybe you could just pick a fabric and let all your bridesmaids choose a style that they like.
As for your hen's night - too bad. If she doesn't like it then she doesn't have to go.