DP and I have decided that we would like to choose my engagement ring together. Something that we both like. The only thing is, he wants to spend ALOT of money on a ring and I want to spend under $1000-, 2 reasons.

#1 - I do not feel comfortable carrying something that costs over $1000 around on my finger.

#2 - I could think of better things to spend the money on, especially since I have soooo much jewellery and wear none of it except the same earrings everyday (I know that THIS ring will be special and I will not take it off but still.)

So my question is how much do you think should be spent on an engagement ring? and are there any jewellery shops that you recommend?