Thanks girls!
Feeb - that's the reason DP would rather she bring her best friend if anyone as we know she has been around for a long time and is more family than a current boyfriend... she made the comment back in December (actually both SIL-to-be and her best friend did) that she would be coming to our wedding! I wouldn't mind soo much but I have never had that much to do with her, unlike the rest of DP's family who she is close to

Grrr just makes me mad because between the wedding and bub being due, everything is still about them or bub, not US