Meaningful gift for a 40th/going away occasion

[NaeNae]

I was going to suggest a bracelet too but was thinking of a Thomas Sabo one ... then you could add a charm to represent how you know each other?

OR

find something that is special just between the two of you for example ... a friend and I joked that we'd be old ladies sitting with crazy hats on our head, unmatching clothes, blue eye shadow and red lipstick eating Thai on Bourke road .... so we often find cards with old ladies in crazy hats on them. We met through dancing but both got into that particular style of dance through a love of Jazz, so for her birthday this year I got her a charm that was music notes.

sorry for waffling but had to explain

[AnyDream]

Hmmm, I must admit this thread is making me feel like a right tightarse. I mean I love my friend and everything but I sure can't afford to lash out on a Pandora bracelet let alone with a charm too!

I like your idea Naenae of really personalising it, but I need to get my skates on because the dinner thing is tomorrow night (!)