You usually just ask the people if they will be God parents some time before the ceremony, not just name them on the day without telling them. Is that what you were planning to do?? I'm confused! lol.
Yes i had planned to ask them but felt awkward about doing so as i wasnt sure what they would think but turns out that my bestie already tells people that my DD is her god daughter but now i have to ask DPs friend and i feel awkward doing so as i know his wife will be reluctant..

I don't know if it will be so much as a 'naming day' as a farewell but i'd like to announce that the two of them are god parents and celebrate that. I'm not entirely sure what i want to do yet! lol so will have to think and plan.