I too was molested by my father, and am no longer in any form of contact with him (thankfully). I chose to have my wonderful daughter walk me down the aisle to meet my husband and her stepdad - we walked down together, then she placed my hand in his as we both gave her a quick kiss and cuddle before she went to go stand with my bridesmaid.

A lot of the people commented later on how sweet it was that she got to do that and for us it was a symbolic thing to say that we are now a family.